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Bridesmaids' Guide to Divvying Up Responsibilities

Writer's picture: Allenia MarcelleAllenia Marcelle

Updated: Feb 16, 2024

Bridesmaids play a vital role in supporting the bride during the wedding planning process and on the big day itself.



Bridesmaid Proposal Box Set of 3
Bridesmaid Proposal Box Set of 3

Each bridesmaid should be assigned specific responsibilities to ensure that everything runs smoothly. Here's a comprehensive list of responsibilities that can be assigned to the bridesmaids:


Pre-Wedding Events:


a. Bridal Shower:

  • Coordinate with the maid of honor to plan and organize the bridal shower.

  • Choose a theme, budget, guest list, and venue.

  • Send out invitations, handle RSVPs, and plan the menu.

  • Organize games and activities for the guests.

b. Bachelorette Party:

  • Plan and execute the bachelorette party with the bride's preferences in mind.

  • Find a suitable venue, decide on a theme or dress code, and invite the guests.

  • Arrange for transportation if needed.

  • Ensure that the bride has a memorable and enjoyable time.



Wedding Day Tasks:


a. Getting Ready:

  • Assist the bride with getting ready on the wedding day.

  • Help with hair, makeup, and dressing.

  • Ensure that the bride's accessories, such as jewelry and veil, are in place.

  • Provide emotional support and keep the bride calm.

b. Coordinating with Vendors:

  • Communicate with vendors to confirm arrival times, setup requirements, and any special instructions.

  • Ensure that all vendors are on schedule.

c. Assisting with Decorations:

  • Help set up and decorate the wedding venue.

  • Arrange flowers, centerpieces, and other decorative elements.

  • Ensure that the venue is ready and looks beautiful for the ceremony and reception.

d. Handling Emergencies:

  • Be prepared to handle any unexpected situations or emergencies that may arise.

  • Have a small emergency kit with essentials like stain remover, safety pins, and tissues.

e. Caring for the Bride's Belongings:

  • Keep track of the bride's personal belongings, such as her purse, phone, and wedding rings.

  • Ensure that these items are safe and secure throughout the day.

Post-Wedding Tasks:

a. Gift Management:

  • Collect and organize wedding gifts for the bride and groom.

  • Create a gift registry or manage the one that was created.

  • Send thank-you notes on behalf of the couple.

b. Clean-Up:

  • Assist with cleaning up the wedding venue after the reception.

  • Pack up decorations, gifts, and any leftover items.

  • Return rented items and coordinate with vendors for post-event logistics.



Assigning Responsibilities:

To ensure that responsibilities are assigned fairly and efficiently, consider the following factors:

1. Interests and Skills:

  • Take into account each bridesmaid's interests, strengths, and skills.

  • Assign tasks that align with their preferences and abilities.

2. Time Availability:

  • Consider the bridesmaids' schedules and time commitments.

  • Assign tasks that can be completed within their availability.

3. Communication:

  • Clearly communicate each bridesmaid's responsibilities and expectations.

  • Provide a timeline and guidelines to ensure everyone is on the same page.

4. Teamwork:

  • Encourage teamwork and collaboration among the bridesmaids.

  • Have regular check-ins to discuss progress and address any concerns.


By carefully assigning responsibilities and working together, the bridesmaids can support the bride and create a memorable and stress-free wedding experience.




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